Most people want to lose weight at some time in their lives, and want it to be fast and easy. The truth about dieting is harder to swallow.
What's "Normal"
"Who Doesn't Love a Shortcut?"
All those diets that sound too good to be true promise that:
- You'll get an immediate sense of control.
- Everyone will tell you how great you look.
- You'll feel better about your body.
- You'll like yourself better.
What's TRUE
It Takes Time to Lose Weight
People who lose weight for good do it a little at a time, over a long period. They:
- Decide they want to change the ways they eat and move. This is different from deciding to "lose weight".
- Set Realistic goals. Adding 10 minutes of activity a day is more possible than setting an unreachable weight goal.
- Reward themselves. Appreciating small changes can be a key to make change last.
- Lose a reasonable amount (5 or 10 pounds). Then maintain their new weight for a few months before trying to lose more.
What's "Normal"
"The Right Diet Is Out There"
The first diet book was published in 1864 by an English casket maker who claimed that low carbohydrates and daily alcohol were the way to shed unwanted pounds.
Since then, fad diets have come and gone with great regularity. Their inventors are experts at packaging. They make it easy to believe that this time, this particular diet will really work.
What's TRUE
The Diet Dilemma
Most people try to lose weight by limiting their calories, eating only one type of food, or following a rigid food plan. They almost always gain it back because:
- Keeping weight off takes different skills than taking it off.
- Diets make you cranky, tired, moody, and more likely to get sick. So people are eager to get off a diet.
- After a diet, most people go back to the eating and activity patterns they had before.
What's "Normal"
"Is Food More Trouble Than It's Worth?"
Diets can cause a love/hate relationship with food. Eat this...don't eat that...eat less...eat more...blah, blah, blah. But food can be a very useful tool.
What's TRUE
Food Is Friend, Not a Foe
What you eat affects how you look, function and feel. You'll do best eating foods that contain a lot of nutrients in relation to their calories.
- Eat richly colored fruits and vegetables. They offer lots of essential nutrients and satisfy your hunger. It's a 2 for 1 deal!
- Eat whole-grain breads, rice, cereals, and pastas. They contain more fiber, vitamins and minerals than refined products.
- Try nutritious food. Add 1 or 2 new foods at a time, until you have plenty of choices as part of a healthy diet.
- Use hunger to help you gauge when and how much to eat. Stop eating when you're satisfied, before you feel full.
60%
of the calories the average American
consumes are "nutritionally empty".
This means they come from sugar and
nonessential fats. This leaves only
40% of total calories to supply all
the essential nutrients.
What's "Normal"
"But Exercise Is Such a Pain"
Many fad diets don't even mention physical activity. But using the calories you consume is an important part of managing your weight.
What's TRUE
Your Body Loves to Move and Stretch
You don't have to join a gym, learn a sport or spend all your spare time working out to get the activity you need.
- Walk, dance, bike, swim, or do some other activity you enjoy for 30 minutes on most days of the week. It works to go for 10 minutes, 3 times a day too!
- All activity counts. (According to one study, even fidgeting helps!) Walk when you talk on the phone. Take the stairs instead of the escalator or elevator. Choose the farthest parking space.
- Notice the feel of your body moving. Enjoy the great sensations!
- Have fun while you're moving. If you like moving, chances are you will (and vice versa).
Bonus Points!
Besides helping you lose weight and keep
it off, physical activity relieves common
causes of overeating. It can lower
stress, boost mood, enhance
self-esteem and lift depression.
Fortunately, exercising has never really been a problem for me. I truly enjoy working out. I also LOVE that sore feeling from working out. To me, that's the best feeling in the world! I've never been one to take the elevator (I trained myself to feel guilty for taking an elevator or escalator). And, it's true when they say that exercise lowers stress and releases endorphins!
What's "Normal"
"I Have No Willpower"
Fad diets that don't work undermine people's confidence after a while. People who try to lose weight this way, and fail again and again, start to think it's their fault they can't do it.
What's TRUE
It's Possible to Feel Confident
and Empowered About Food
Knowing why you eat, how you eat, and what you eat can be helpful if you want to change your weight.
- Why? Being bored, sad, stressed or wanting to celebrate can lead to unconscious eating. Knowing why you're eating gives you more choices.
- How? Do you eat standing up? Quickly? While studying or watching TV? Eating slowly or in smaller meals can make it easier to pay attention to what you eat.
- What? Most people who succeed in losing weight keep track of how much they eat. You can watch serving sizes, say no to second helpings, count fat grams or calories, or stop eating when you're satisfied but before you're full.
Fat Is Not a No-No
In the right quantities, fat is helpful, not harmful. In fact, fat:
- Makes you feel full longer
- Helps you absorb the nutrients in fruits and vegetables. For example, a salad with a little oil helps you absorb more of the nutrients in the veggies.
- Strengthens your immune system.
- Choose monounsaturated fats (Found in olives, nuts and avocados). These fats raise HDL (the "good" cholesterol) levels and are heart healthy.
- Limit saturated fats (Found in cheese and meat).
- Don't overdo. The official recommendation is for fat calories to be 305 of the total number of calories you eat each day.
- Watch out for extra sugar and calories in "low-fat" and "nonfat" snacks.
I hope this is helpful for at least ONE person. I know this was helpful for me in the beginning and it continues to aid me in my weight loss.
XOXO